Hi Mattie. I am so sad to read your story and feel your disappointment in your daughter. It sounds like you are experiencing verbal and emotional abuse. Do you have a church, friend, doctor or therapist to talk to about this issue? Please reach out, get support and get some direction to make your life better. You deserve comfort and respect always, but especially as a mother and an elder. I have offered a prayer for you. Take heart, love yourself and garner courage to move forward.