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You're right @janet7, I'm not comfortable with pajamas before bedtime, which means I'm not ready to let go of some social conventions. Since he broke his hip, my husband wears track pants, which are like pajamas, aqnyway. If he insisted on pajamas, I wouldn't fight him. Thank you for your insight.

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Sometimes I come across too hard, but my heart is in whatever I say to you.
This is how I feel about being a caregiver:
first, the people we love are sick and not very happy about it, and second, we don’t know how much time any of us have left. So anything goes, unless it is harmful to them.
A new motto: Let’s enjoy as much as we can, for as long as we can. Hugs!!