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Downsizing, To Move or Not to Move? That is the Question

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@marye2

I was diagnosed with Lupus in my 40s. I quickly realized that no stairs, wider doorways (for walker/wheelchair if I ever needed it), a walk in shower were important considerations. I think, even if I had a beloved home, if it didn't have these attributes I would move. As far as downsizing, square footage is just one aspect. The big thing is to purge the things you no longer use or need and to create a purpose for each room. Having the right things in each room makes life more comfortable and easier, and clutter is easier to avoid. You want things to be simple, easily accessed and fewer objects to keep organized. It is calming. Besides the main bedroom, we have an office (2 desks) and the closet there is His; another bedroom has sewing machine, foldaway bed (I'd rather a day bed in case partner needs to sleep alone) and closet is mine. Living room/dining has table, bookshelves, couch and recliner. Den has TV, stereo, two chairs. I have my favorite wall hangings and pictures up; got rid of the boxes of other frames, etc. I think if we should ever need to transition somewhere else, it will be easier as I have passed on accumulations (including collectibles) of a lifetime. I am working on a book of pictures of people from past generation--scanned and ready to print.

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@marye2 When we bought our house here in 2019, a previous owner had revamped the front entry to accommodate a wheelchair by adding a straight long ramp instead of steps. The original bathroom had a grabbar next to toilet disguised as a towel rack. And a vertical grabbar at the original cast iron tub. Even the back door to laundry room was wide. Flooring replaced to be laminate, no carpet. The last owners turned a third bedroom into her "master bath" with soaking tub and mood lighting. Last year we removed that tub and replaced it with a walk-in shower for me, since getting into and out of the tub became progressively more difficult.

Like you, it has been an ongoing project to simplify. And it's going well. Our neighbors/friends across the street are admitted design aficionados, filling up their house and every blank space. Fortunately that has not rubbed off on me ;))
Ginger