Becky, I am so very sorry for your experiences. I hope your next appt. with new oncologist works out. I too would suggest writing down your questions and if possible take another person for a “second set of ears”. I know you have difficulty with other doctors, explain that briefly, then let the new doctor give you his time( try not to spend too much time discussing bad experiences!). Sending positive thoughts your way for a great appt. with new oncologist.