I think every person, including me, asks themselves this question after a loved one dies. When my husband's health was failing, I began to answer the question. First, I knew my husband would want me to enjoy life and be happy. Second, I knew we shared the same values. Third, I knew my husband loved me for eternity because he called and told me so when I was quarantined for Covid. (Tested positive, no symptoms.) With these things in mind, I made some important decisions. Because each day is a gift, I would enjoy the miracle of life. Giving to medical/health organizations and volunteering would be ways to continue his work. (My husband was a physician.) Most importantly, I could build on his love and open my heart to new experiences and the future. Today, I live in the apartment we shared. I'm Assistant Editor of a website for the bereaved. I've written three books for the bereaved and have a children's book coming out in September. I was my husband's caregiver and started creating doodle art to cope with stress. Now I'm a doodle artist. My husband's love is always with me, part of me and part of my soul. Try to build on your husband's love and live life in memory of him.