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@thisismarilynb

Today is gloomy. When I went out to get the paper, it was drizzling. All plans cancelled. Good day to wash those pots and pans that accumulate that don't go into the dishwasher.
Have you ever had counselling? I have not seen it mentioned on any of the posts. I went to a social worker four times. Last time was yesterday. I quit for two reasons: 1) it was a 23 mile drive each way on Interstate 10; and 2) I really didn't think I got anything from it. Maybe not enough time.

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Hi @thisismarilynb Sorry for the delayed reply. I was offline helping our daughter for a couple days, but am back now. My short answer to your question: Yes, I have done and continue to have counseling and personally have found it immensely helpful to me.

I was in counseling for most of my adult years. A combination of things, but it sure was a huge help to me. My wife and I were also in couples counseling as well as personal counseling and now our adult son and daughter both get regular counseling. I'm pleased we have a view that mental health is as important as our physical health. Plus a recognition that therapists can be as helpful for our health as physicians.

I did have to take a hiatus when my caregiving duties got too all-consuming to allow me time for counseling, but it was one of the top things on my 'to do' list post-caregiving.

Since COVID my therapist and I conduct our sessions via Zoom and are continuing to do that. I think I might like that more -- saves on commuting time and I find I can focus quicker on what I want to talk about.

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