My husband is 80 and has Vascular Dementia. He is also recovering from surgery for a pacemaker because he has issues with his heart. He is still able to drive and goes shopping by himself. He is aware of his memory loss but his doctor has given him the most potent meds available but no change has happened. He needs to be in memory care but we don’t have enough assets to pay for that care. He recently has spent money on cars and tools and we are almost down to only our SS payments. We still have to pay for our house and car.