Welcome @msmunro, It must be difficult for you not having support and understanding from your husband about the pain from your spinal cord injury. There is a post by @jenniferhunter in another discussion on spinal cord injuries that has several videos and links that you may find helpful -- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/comment/643800/

I'm glad to hear you have an upcoming appointment. I normally like to write down my questions that I am trying to get answered at an appointment, especially if it's an important new appointment. Do you have questions you are trying to get answered to take with you to the appointment?