Stage 4 colorectal cancer that has now spread to my lungs! Just getting back to normal and now I’m dealing with this news. I have a tough time dealing with ostomy bags and wearing depends. My life has changed and my heart hurts for my wife. She tries so hard but I feel her getting tired of all the problems. She is focusing on work to help deal with the issues. We’ve lost our normal life and can’t figure out what our new normal is.