I am a youngster compared to you. I am only 79 years old. My marriage fell apart about 20 years ago, but I was young enough at that time to change my life. I moved from Minnesota to southern Florida, and all of a sudden I felt very alone. I decided to take in a young homeless woman, and that was one of the best moves of my life. She became like my daughter. I m not aloe anymore, and she and her boyfriend treat me loving and take really good care of me. I have a normal family life again.