@jaynep, wishing you all the best for your upcoming surgery. You might find some tips helpful in these related discussions:
- Advice on Taking Care of a Spouse after a Mastectomy https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/advice-on-taking-care-of-a-spouse-after-a-mastectomy/ (I know you're having a lumpectomy, but there's still some good stuff here.
- Exercise and Physical Activity after Breast Cancer Surgery https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/exercise-and-physical-activity-after-breast-cancer-surgery/