Fortunately I've downsized a lot. When we moved here over two years ago all I got to bring was what would fit in the car - including Bill, our kitty and her stuff (carrier, litter, food, water, toys, treats) and me! Our kids brought things back that we had actually given them 3 moves before - mostly financial papers that I get to toss since over 7 year IRS requirement - yeah! As soon as Robin has the garage organized (she doesn't want me to rent a storage place) we will start transferring things over each time she comes over here. I make it as easy on Bill as possible. Much easier on me.