Yes, we're all here for support, to give and to receive! That expectation to be 'over it' is so dang frustrating. When my spouse and I left my follow up appointment, when everything was fine, no more cancer, etc., I was upset by all the well-meaning staff questions about 'celebrating.' I told my spouse, "I feel like I was kidnapped seven months ago, cut into, irradiated, then poisoned and shaved bald, and now my captors have released me and want to know when the big party is!" 🙂 I was, and to an extent still am, traumatized! This community of patients and survivors is so important, and I'm glad you're here.