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Advice on Taking Care of a Spouse after a Mastectomy

Breast Cancer | Last Active: Dec 15, 2023 | Replies (25)

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@sirref
Your wife will need help in cleaning out her drains and bulb for the first few days. My husband was so kind and gentle doing that until I could do it. Also, prior to surgery, figure out where she can bend over at a sink easily and you can wash and rinse her hair. That is a very big treat having hair washed. Taking her out of the house for short walks is also a nice treat getting fresh air. Just be there and let her talk when she wants to and being her best friend is one of the nicest things you can do.

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I did bring up the comment on washing her hair. She wants to discuss that matter with more of her friends who have had surgeries. When I take her out and about, all the post I read is beware of bumps and attempt to avoid all sudden stops or starts.
She will be ready to get up and move about and just feel free to move.
Thank you for the reply.