Oh dear, @elleheart. I can understand your reaction. @happy2bhear, was not speaking on behalf of Mayo Clinic. She and @centre were offering assistance in seeking care should you not be able to get an appointment at Mayo Clinic.

Here in the online forums, words and tone can be easily misunderstood. However, words are the only tool we have. So allow me to say sincerely that no one is suggesting that your condition or needing surgery is a blessing.

Elleheart, I hope your physician will make referrals for you to Mayo Clinic or the institution you and your physician think can help. Fingers crossed that you get answers soon. Let me know if I can help.