No wonder you feel confused and overwhelmed. I had such brain fog during menopause and that was before the cancer diagnosis.

Is there a friend or relative who can go to your appointment with you? I'm asking this because it's such a stressful time for you and you might like to have another "set of ears" present.

Are you receiving your cancer care at a university or major medical center? If so, can ask your doctor to refer you to a cancer support group at the medical center? I learned about such a group from the Cancer Education Center at Mayo Clinic in Rochester when I was there in December. I asked for a referral and will first meet with the psychologist virtually and then with the group. Also virtually. I'll think of some other questions too and come back here.