No, it's just a fact. The horribleness of chronic pain the loss of life quality the inability to participate, the burden on others is just a few of the things unless experienced. Personally, one cannot feel how bad it really is. Please do not think I am unappreciative of the help I humbly receive. We all need help sometimes and then some of us suffer more all the time. When we are seen and when we are alone. It would be nice to be able to enjoy being more a part of life rather than just painfully trying to make it through each day. I'm pretty sure you too would want a better way to live .