Terrified mom

Hello everyone, I am a mother of an adult daughter. She is 31 years old and had been recently diagnosed with WFNET. It is a low grade tumor, her primary care doctor said it should be considered a benign tumor. Though her surgeon insists that he treats all of these tumors as cancerous . She lives in Alaska and as you might guess medical options are really scarce there. Her surgeon suggested a Whipple procedure. It is absolutely terrifying to everyone in our family. She has been a healthy person, likes to hike, run, swim. Eats right. Married. They want to have kids. And now that. Whipple procedure is basically a life changing event. It has high mortality rate, very difficult to recover from and puts an end to most of her dreams and plans. And the tumor is not even big or aggressive. The MN clinic called her with the questions and said they would review her caee and let her know in a few days if they going to take it. We, her parents, her husband and out girl herself, are absolutely terrified by a possibility of a rejection. Mayo had the best specialists in minimally invasive procedures, surgeries that preserves most of the organ and enucleation in particular. Robotic surgery is also an option. If not them then who? She is so young, with the whole life ahead of her.