@renee11

Oh, I do understand your fears. The heart/lung machine breathing for you is rather intimidating, I'll admit. Your fears really are very normal. Since your surgery is coming up soon, it will be good to have it all over with, won't it? Most people feel so much better after this surgery and that will be great!

I know you have probably heard this before, but valve replacement has become an almost routine experience. Cardiologists who specialize in this type of surgery have a great deal of confidence. I don't know how long ago, your father and brother had their surgeries but every year makes a difference in perfecting cardiac surgical strategy.

I've had heart valve problems since I was age 11, and I know that I too, will someday come to the point where you are now.

You don't mention your age, however, valve surgery is usually done when your symptoms indicate the need. You certainly do have a family history of this problem.

Do you know if your doctor going to use a mechanical valve or an animal valve? Do you have other health concerns that you are being treated for?