Hi Julie! Hope today brings you some happy, cherished moments. I don't have a lot of time right now, but did want to comment on hiding things from others. I used to see so many things that were not right, would schedule doctor appointments and he would act unbelievably normal. I began to think I was crazy and others in the family accused me of exaggerating his symptoms. But time tells all and eventually others saw what I was seeing to include the doctors. There is a term called "showtiming" where the patient uses lots of energy to appear as normal as possible for specific situations. Then after the event is over, there is usually a period of exhaustion amd rest is needed. Understanding this was life changing for me and for others. I work to keep the environment consistent as much as possible. Hope this helps am6d welcome to this very special group!