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Celebrations and Being on the Spectrum

Autism (ASD) | Last Active: Nov 21, 2022 | Replies (33)

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@sueinmn

Ginger - "@mamacita's words of "once you've met an autistic person, well, you met one autistic person" rings true again." AMEN! I managed a number of people on the spectrum in my career (many gravitate to tech jobs) and each one was unique. We have family members on the spectrum, and each is awesome in their own way.
Perhaps that is why it takes so long to diagnose so many...

My daughter, as a school nurse to many kids of different backgrounds, has learned to never use the words "autism" and "spectrum" with the parents because the concept is frightening in some cultures. She uses "neuro-atypical" and carefully explains how different people process life in a variety of ways. It seems almost everyone can understand and accept this concept, and will often agree to an assessment "to help your student be the best they can be"

What do you think of this approach?
Sue

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@sueinmn Before retiring, I sometimes had the duty of training people in new procedures. As someone on the spectrum, this left me in great distress to make sure I would actually "get through" to those who were supposed to learn. I approached it from the idea that everyone can learn. Some by listening, some by seeing things written down and following instructions, some by hands-on. And any combination of those is fine. The goal is to do what it takes to learn/understand/apply new information. I believe it made me a better instructor because I had already dealt with the challenges of exposure as a neuro-atypical. I was more accepting, more understanding, of those who had a difficult time with concepts. And, really, there were several who just didn't have what it took to do the detailed and critical work! There is a lot of stigma attached to words, isn't there?
Ginger