I have had lung cancer for 5 1/2 years, stable so far, approaching my 9th decade and while I don't think about dying all the time it certainly is a reality to face and I have written my obituary (sans dates), kept my will up to date, told my family I want to be cremated and where to be buried, have a party vs. mournful church service, slowly sorted through my junk and good stuff and given it all away so when the time comes it won't be such a hassle for family. I have set up my estate in trusts so asset management shouldn't be difficult. I am in charge of that part of my life and it makes me happy.

PS. I am pretty fit for the most part. Sub Zumba instructor ....