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Celebrations and Being on the Spectrum

Autism (ASD) | Last Active: Nov 21, 2022 | Replies (33)

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@linh

I did come to our Christmas family gathering, it gave me an opportunity to see in person my very autistic nephew & support him in my own way. Everyone tested with Covid-19 antigen tests beforehand & we are boosted too (except nephew). So we’ll blame it on the dog if we get Covid. The newest variant hasn’t really hit our area in any big way though, & not everyone joined us that might have otherwise.

I think being able to share little activities that I enjoyed as a child with my nephew helps me in adjusting to gatherings. I learned this time his favorite music group is the Eagles so I will now look for Eagles things to share with him next time.

The host prepared my nephew’s favorite dinner, & he did pay the cook big comments devouring it. Just seeing him is a real joy for me. And so far, knock on wood the dog hasn’t given us Covid!

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What a delightful story! We have several family members on the spectrum, and we always try to have a "safe space" for them to take a time out from the gathering, or for one or two people to visit quietly. We also accept that sometimes comfort means sitting in the group, but wearing earbuds or reading. Making a favorite dish or meal makes a lot of sense! We'll try that at the next gathering.
Sue