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Holidays are not happy, family times for everyone

Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Dec 25, 2021 | Replies (56)

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Thank you! I have one daughter who lives in another state, and a brother and sister in France. I live by myself, I have become bitter, yet, yesterday, Christmas Eve, I decided to change this, I do not know how long it will last but I will endeavor to focus on the positive in my life. Although a Christian, the only emotional support I receive is from a Rabbi in New Jersey (I do not live in New Jersey). My neighbors too busy with the Christmas preparations... I followed the Friday night service via zoom, and was deeply touched when the Rabbi pronounced my name out-loud and asked his congregation to pray for me. There is unity for those who trust God.

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Good for you! I’m so encouraged to see you want to change your perspective from being bitter! It reminds me of one of my favorite quotes, “ I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it will be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it!” Groucho Marx

I hope this year finds you with a new attitude of taking charge of your happiness. Finding emotional support with a spiritual leader can be very beneficial. I’m so happy you feel this unity with the Rabbi in New Jersey. But you mentioned you don’t live there! How did you come to find him?