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Hi Mary! Colleen invited me to join in. I haven't been around much lately, not because I've been ill but just busy with family and all that life throws at us each day. I was initially diagnosed stage 2, ER/PR+, HER-2 neg April 24,2019. I accepted the chemo/mastectomy route, got my port and was ready to beat this. Beginning of May, after the scans were complete, it changed to Stage 4 with metastasis to my bones and lungs.Prior txt decision and mastectomy thrown out the window. I was put on Ibrance and Letrozole, which I am still on. I've gone thru some aches, fatigue, and hair thinning associated with the Letrozole (estrogen blocker) or the Ibrance. Fatigue went away after awhile but until then I'd sneak in a 30 minute nap here and there and that usually helped. The aches come and go and honestly I can't recall when exactly I stopped noticing any. Of course my left femur (met site) aches if I walk too much (I also like to hike) but I still hike and trudged thru 1 feet deep snow to retrieve a Christmas tree, just taking breaks more often. Life goes on. I'm at 2 yrs. 8 months ( I keep track), keep a positive attitude and push the cancer diagnosis to the very back of my mind. I know it's not easy but you have to look forward to living and keep doing it. Many have said "I may die with cancer but not FROM cancer". Keep your head up. We're all living longer with various treatment options available now.
Peggie

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Very inspiring! My Mom is in the similar condition but her post covid lungs are giving her much harder time. She’s on O2 24/7 and only able to wean off only for about 15-20 minutes a day. We know that time is not on her side but doing all that can keep her comfortable and happy. it’s very worrying to think of what’s coming. She’s not taking any oral chemo drugs asr the Drs believe she must come out of her fragile condition to be able to withstand side effects of these drugs.
Wishing you lot of courage and grit!

Big hugs to you. May I ask if you were told if you had a mass/tumor, what the size was and where it is located?
Do the doctors still do PET or CT scans to see if tumors are shrinking?