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@decabea

If a seated affair, i try to avoid a table in the middle of the room. A smile and a nod helps,but really large gatherings and especially if extremely high ceilings have no satisfactory solution.

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@decabea

I agree and I am happy that others find ways to participate in conversations. Aside from all the strategies we use to optimize our hearing and our use of technologies, it depends on how severe one’s hearing loss is. I relax and accept what I cannot do, ask occasional questions when appropriate . I have had progressive hearing loss for over 40 years and know every “trick” in the book. I am not afraid to let anyone know of my hearing loss and, while most people are accommodating, I also don’t want to interject too often when others are so enjoying a lively good time. Do I miss those days? Sure I do. But I am so fortunate in that everyone wants me to be there anyway. I enjoy the vibe and am not feeling sorry for myself and am not stressing out. The phrase “ It is what it is “ is not meant to indicate a defeatist attitude. It’s reality for me and I know people sense that and ,yes, love me for that.

So cheers to everyone and where’s the next party? lol.

FL Mary