Hi Becky
I like to prepare as I would for a business meeting.
When I met with Neurologist number two I brought along notes and test results from Neurologist number one.
I also typed up a list of my symptoms including a timeline.
I included dietary habits, lifestyle notes (work, exercise, etc ) and all meds and supplements.
I tried to anticipate all questions I might encounter.
Finally I listed all of my questions.
I asked them toward the end of our discussion (as, toward then end, I realized many had already been answered).
I find it very difficult to describe symptoms so I like to give them a lot of thought and type them out beforehand.
I find, by anticipating the Dr 's
questions, preparing answers, and having my questions in front of me, we are able to accomplish a lot more in the allotted time.
I never ask the Dr. to predict the future.
Questions such as:
"Can you cure me"?
"Can you stop this"?
"What will my life be like?"
only put the Dr. on the spot.
He/she will do their best.
If I feel uncomfortable with "their best" it's time to find another Physician