My biggest impediment, on bad days, is getting started! My friend i& neighbor s an amazingly productive artist, who lives with RA and OA pain.
She told another friend and me "Here is how I cope" -
1) I make a list of 2 things to accomplish each morning - sometimes as small as "clear off the kitchen counter" or "get groceries". If I finish those, I had a successful day. But usually, this gets me moving and I go on to accomplish more.
2) Every day, I do something related to art. If I can't paint, I sketch. If I can't sketch, I go through my (on-line) photos looking for inspiration. If I feel too lousy to even do that, I watch art-related videos.
Then you posted about "SMART" and I was amazed at how her goals aligned so perfectly, while still respecting her body, emotions and ability. She inspired me, and I have been trying this fall to emulate her. It has really helped!
Thank you Rachel for the reminder that I need to make goals I can accomplish with the body and energy I have, not what I used to be able to do!
Sue
@sueinmn You are very welcome Sue. We all can use reminders and reinforcement sometimes (including myself), and to know that we are not alone in the daily grind of chronic pain.
I started the SMART Goals conversation to inspire and motivate. It's easy to feel sorry for ourselves and give up, but that can be a dead end street.
"You get out of it, what you put into it"
I taught my kids this lesson at an early age. When I became permanently disabled, I took my own advice because I knew if roles were reversed, and my kids, or a family member or friend suffered from what I have, I'd encourage them in the same way.
The thing about it is often we are good at inspiring others with great advice but we don't always adhere to our own.
Small steps and staying the course. Keep up the good work Sue!