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Hi, Lori. I'll be happy to jump in here and to share my experience with @blewellyn about the Gift-of-Life House in Rochester.
Bridgette, My husband and I spent 13 weeks in Rochester, after an airlift from ICU in my home state of Kentucky. He investigated the Gift of Life House (GOL) while I was being treated for 2 weeks in the hospital. I have to admit that his initial decision was based on an affordable and convenient place to stay for an indefinite time. He soon told me that it was so much more and he was excited to take me there after my initial hospital discharge while building my strength and waiting for a transplant. I was 'grounded' by the liver transplant team and told not to leave the area, plus I needed dialysis and other tests and procedures. This is where the shuttle to/from the Clinic are so convenient.
The GOL provides a clean and safe atmosphere where a person can hear the inspirational stories and receive support from talking with, or by observing others who are on similar journeys. It is a place where people speak softly, and respect the privacy for all. We had a private bedroom and bathroom - all beautifully decorated and handicapped accessible. All meals are self provided and there are community kitchens with everyone having an assigned closet, refrigerator shelf, and a freezer shelf. There are several dining rooms, and there are multiple quiet reading areas, TV and activity areas, as well as lots of books and puzzles. Even a computer room with printers are available. I spent most of my time quietly working puzzles or napping/reading in my room because of how I felt. My husband was able to interact with the other caregivers, so he could let me rest.
For us, the luxury of dining with others was a blessing, and even before Covid, all guests observed best practices for safety like washing hands, distancing, sanitizing common areas, etc.
I once had to be hospitalize for a couple of days, and some of the other guests inquired to my husband about me. When I returned 'home' to GOL on the shuttle, I received a spontaneous round of applause by those who were waiting their turns to get on the shuttle!.
Everyone who stays at the GOL must take a short tour and agree to the standards.
I almost forgot to add, that now the GOL and Mayo Clinic have coordinated with the phlebotomy dept and there is a lab inside the GOL where patients can have their labs drawn without having to leave the house!
Sending you my thoughts.