I am intersex, and like almost all people with intersex syndromes, I have my share of problems. Not as many as you have, but enough for my taste.
I did not find comprehensive help for any of them, until I went to the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota, where I was turned inside out, and upside down.
I cannot be healed, because my body is pretty screwed up, but my problems are dealt with, and I can live a normal, almost pain free life.
I live in southern Florida, but travel annually to Minnesota to be treated by the docs at the Mayo. In between I see them via Zoom.

You might want to see if you can have the Mayo docs will treat you, too?