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Loss of wife: Still having a hard time sleeping. Alone a lot.
Loss & Grief | Last Active: Mar 13, 2022 | Replies (35)Comment receiving replies
I have thought about adding a pet but at 81 yrs old what do I do with it if I have to go somewhere like long trip, hospital etc so canceled that idea. I recently have taken up repainting small yard ornaments and hope it might progress to painting art inside. Got a bicycle yesterday that I should be able to ride in out small community with mild winters.
Talking to others that have lost loved ones many years ago. They say the sorrow never goes away and to keep doing things to keep busy even if it is calling someone on the phone.
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Thanks for your post @IndianaScott - it’s reassuring to see I’m not alone and that how I feel is “normal”. Seems like things get better then something triggers emotions and memories, both good and bad. I need to work on my to do list and manage it like you. Sometimes I feel like I’m letting life pass me by - especially when I don’t accomplish much of anything. And I need to figure out how to deal with sleeping issues. I’ve been taking it one day at a time but maybe I need to think longer term.