I was given skintegrety hydrogel.i asked for non stick pads .as they were giving me abdominal pads that stuck to tge burns that absorbed some spots of blood. I approach the nurse today and told her I felt her comment was callous. And I said to her I know you I understand that you have to develop kind of a shield because this could be emotionally draining dealing with life and death issues but you have to remember we are human beings with feelings. And diminishing pain by describing it is uncomfortable it’s not appropriate I did it with a lot of love and I said I hope you will take this in the spirit was delivered. I also told him about the whole environment of scanning a card like you’re A number in a deli line you see no one you get your own gown I’m disabled in a wheelchair, and you say no until the radiation therapist comes to get you you know there’s two nurses at the station they don’t say good morning how are you nothing it’s almost like you’re just a number so I explain my feelings to them today and I think more cancer patients should speak up because the emphasis seems to be compliance by fear.What are the nurses said thank you for the feedback we’re gonna try to do better the one that made the comment to me said nothing and continued describing my pain as “discomfort“. There Hass to be a better way there Hass to be a union between Western and eastern medicine the eastern medicine they are healers the Western medicine it’s more about frightening you into using the drugs that ravage your body there’s a place for both and there’s a need for both but I don’t understand why they can’t work in harmony