Hi Kristen, I am a 57 year old female also living with an S shaped curve from adolescence (although not discovered until I was an adult). I have maintained an active lifestyle, although the pain is progressing. Five years ago I would have said "I can live with this". I still can, but not if the pain continues to progress at this rate. I am only taking Aleve for the pain and don't want to advance beyond that.
I've also been diagnosed with osteoporosis in my spine and I'm being told I should have the surgery sooner than later or I run the risk of no longer being a candidate. I am currently taking Tymlos (similar to Forteo) to strengthen my bones before a long fusion (T2 to S1). I originally was planning the surgery for September 2021, but my bone density after 4 months of Tymlos was still too low. They now want me on the Tymlos for one year prior and one year after the surgery (now planning for April 2022).
Given the progression, my greatest fear is that my bone density will not get to where it needs to be for the surgery. Close behind this fear, is what if it does and I have the surgery and what my life will be like after that. I haven't been able to find anyone with a long fusion close to my age that had an active lifestyle.
I feel conflicted because I fear both not being able to have the surgery as much as having the surgery and experiencing a significant change in my lifestyle.
I know that I'm not being responsive to your inquiry to find someone that has had the surgery. I wish you luck and would be interested in hearing more about your journey.
I have osteoporosis and scoliosis, among other joint/bone things. In 1982 I had 2 Harrington rods fused into my lumbar spine. They didn't help, in fact one broke in half. 1994 - I had additional 6 screws inserted. Didn't help. Pain off the charts. October 2019, I had a Nevro pain block device implanted; a small implant (about 1"x1-1/2"x1/8") in lower left back with electric pulses that are received by 2 wires on either side of my spinal cord. They block pain signals from reaching my brain. Works! First time in 60 years my back doesn't kill me. Prolia is working. I don't have what you do, but I can relate to your pain. I would ask doc about pain implant. My scoliosis is side-to-side and front-to-back. I've included a slice of an MRI.