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upset caregiver: what do these results mean?

Cancer | Last Active: Oct 12, 2021 | Replies (116)

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@merpreb

Do you have his test results? All of his test results should be in a file so that as he goes along and seems confused you can show him what you are talking about. Was he like this with his first cancer?

Being in denial is a pretty good guess and a natural one for a cancer patient. I don't think that I was in denial as much as I didn't want to think about it. I respect your husband's privacy and I respect your need for support outside of your family.

Is the work that your husband does very strenuous? Can he handle it all right now?

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Just got back from my husband's Internalist. I'm a total.mess again. He used the word large when the other drs said small. He mentioned it may not be localized.,when none of the other drs used that term. He asked if the other drs thought was cancer, so d ones he. He didn't give a good picture. I sure hope the specialist are more correct. He finally quit smoking. And he did tell his daughter, she hadnt talked to him a since. And he regrets telling her.

Scared2

Its early evening, up the only one up. And crying scared. I wish the test was this week not
next week. I feel like I'm lost on a island. I know I'm suppose to be strong for him, and cry. But each day I get more scared.
Hes the love of my life.