My disabled spouse with renal cell carcinoma, mets to the lung, was referred to Palliative Care after being diagnosed with a pathological fracture to the sternum. They are WONDERFUL! They manage all of her pain meds, determined to help her improve her quality of life. We have met with the social worker and the doctor, who is more than willing to work with the oncologist to see that our needs are met. They are such a valuable team, offering complimentary options like music therapy, pet therapy, relaxation techniques, etc.

Don't hesitate to get a referral! Palliative care is not for the dying, but for those who want to live life to the fullest possible within the confines of illness and pain. Good luck.