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@waterboy

I am a 71 yr old male that has numerous medical problems, Severe COPD, Alpha 1, Essential Tremors, PE's, Barretts, and ED to name a few. For the ED my wife and I went thru the pills, skipped the pumps-they are dangerous, penile injections, and finally IPP then 2 yrs after revision surgery due to pump failure. Yes, I realize I am not 20 anymore, but with the complications with COPD it is very difficult to get the satisfaction I incorrectly anticipated. The other thing that is hard to deal with is that an erection is mechanical, not arousal... I think only a man can understand that. I also. worry about what my wife of 49 years thinks

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Bill, are you able to ask her what she think?

Hello@waterboy... I'll tell you how your wife feels. She's still very much in love with you. Sex is good but it shouldn't take the place of love. I'm a 60 year old female. There's other parts of your body that can satisfy your partner. My partner does not get fully erect, so we try other means. The thought of of cheating has never crossed my mind. I'm blinded by love and understanding.
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