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upset caregiver: what do these results mean?
Cancer | Last Active: Oct 12, 2021 | Replies (116)Comment receiving replies
He left for work 2 hours ago. I'm here, trying to figure out how we skip over tomorrow, its bad news. Lol. Its kinda like a love hate thing. I want to/ need to/ hear the results but the other half doesn't want to.
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I get that and I'm sorry that you are having a tough time. It definitely a scary time but you really need to know as much as you can to support your husband. Do some research so that you know what's terms mean. Even if it's scary education is power and will help you feel better. WIth cancer, as you know the feeling of powerlessness and helplessness is prevalent. You've been through this with his throat cancer. I know that you can do this again and I will be with you through this, Ok?
Hello @scared2
I hope by now that you and your husband have some news about his results. If you are comfortable doing so, will you share an update of those results?
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Your husband doesn't want to know the results? Oh, my. If you tell him that you need to know because then you can prepare to help him and provide what he needs would that help?