Hi right back! Thank you kindly for your message. It's nice to connect with people, not just because we are in pain, but I honestly believe it's the decent thing to do. Helping others is VERY important to me. So if you need to chat, I'm always a screen away.

My great grandfather worked for Blue bell for 50 years, as a truck driver. It takes its toll on the body and mind. Even more so with the pandemic last year and the after math it's left everyone in. I sincerely hope you and your loved ones are okay.💖

As for the 'little blue pill'. My husband went through a stage of denial, then frustration, to anger. Sometimes he would have a conversation with it. "Hey, come on. Work with me on this." It's funny the way he said it but it's sad too. I often wondered if I inadvertently put him under pressure to perform, so I let him come to me when he felt ready.

There's a company called 'numan' here in England. It's on the tv ALL the time to promote ED awareness. We looked into it. Cause at first we thought it was something new, when in fact, it was advertising the 'blue pill'. (Among other medications and men related issues, like hair loss, testosterone replacement, ect.) I don't think he was overly impressed with the cost, and his initial response to the lack of spontaneity was heartfelt. He says romance kind of goes out the window when you have to take medication to get your motor running.

I hope that science and medicine find healthy ways to treat this problem for men. It's not nice for them.

Sending gentle hugs. 💖