Hi Marbee, I can imagine that it took a lot of courage to write your question. It is a very personal and sensitive topic that is difficult to talk about with your partner or to get advice from family or friends. That's where online communities like Mayo Clinic Connect can help.

@waterboy is quite right that it is an issue that is best discussed as a couple. But sometimes that conversation can be really hard to start and to navigate.

I've added your question to the Women's Health group too because I'm confident we can have a respectful discussion to get tips from all sides of a relationship. I think @artscaping may have some thoughts to add.

Marbee, are you and your partner still interested in intimacy, like cuddling, holding hands, or touching?