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Dementia and Not Eating: Very concerned

Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Jul 30, 2021 | Replies (35)

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@tamarab

Thank you, Sue. Don't know that sardines or oysters will fly, but cut up canned fruit might. I will sit and eat with Burt when he feels up to eating. I cut his lemon tarts into quarters so less threatening. He does eat just not enough to not lose weight and I was hoping to fatten him up a bit. He is in early stages with excellent memory especially for grievances and annoyances. Ah well. Yesterday was a big day and major effort for him. Went to new doctor-- primary care-- and had to charm and flirt with all the staff; also we walked both ways saw some old neighbors etc. Made eating last night rougher than usual. I will keep trying.

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Replies to "Thank you, Sue. Don't know that sardines or oysters will fly, but cut up canned fruit..."

You have the right attitude! And to the good, he isn't losing weight, so you must be doing something right.
Do take care of yourself, too - accept any help offered, and take a break if you can.
As to flirting with the staff - my cantankerous Grandad was at his best around nurses - it was so funny!
Sue