Hello Lynn, I would say your reaction is about typical of what I have heard for people who had the vaccine shortly after a Covid infection. It really means your immune system was doing its job, ramping up your immune defenses.
For most people, the current CDC and Pfizer recommendations are to receive the second dose as scheduled. I know the issue is being reviewed for people who had Covid and a strong reaction to the first dose, but skipping the second does is not advised at this time.
As to your personal situation, this is a question for the provider who cared for you during your bout with Covid.
Sue