Hi Laurie @roch, I have a similar issue except I do get up at least once a night and I am also on medication to help. Mine is from BPH. Mayo Clinic has some information that may help you with your upcoming appointment or help decide to set up a specific problem appointment.

Bladder control problems in women: Seek treatment -- Recognize the warning signs and symptoms of a bladder control problem. Understand when to seek a doctor's help and how to get the most out of your visit.
-- https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/urinary-incontinence/in-depth/bladder-control-problems/art-20044228