Well, Shamrock, you need to realize what a gift you are and the extent of the gifts of listening and helping are to each of us. That, I believe, as I was saying to my dear cousin last night, is why we're here.....to help other people. We have insights and gifts we can offer to others that no one else has, so you, sir, are being used by our God or Higher power or whomever you call him, for the good purposes He put you here.
Embrace it. Love it. Be thankful for the gifts you give and therefore, you receive many times more!
Blessings, elizabeth