I'm sorry for that, maybe I was trying to speculate too much as to why someone would tell you how to act or think. What you said is right and I don't think there is any excuse for a therapist to be cruel or put someone down. I am afraid to talk to a therapist in the first place and I know I couldn't handle one like you described. Please, accept my apology if it sounded like I condoned that type of behavior and I do admire your courage to continue therapy.