I'd go to sex therapy, but he is beyond that. He moved out and is living alone in misery. He won't even go back to see his surgeon or our marriage counselor. He loves to be miserable and doesn't realize how healthy it is for people to have regular sex! His insecurities have gotten the best of him and he is just not thinking straight. I just don't know that there is anything further that I can do to help him. Sad, but true. I don't need sex therapy, I am fine. Ready and willing, just can't get the guy to come out of his pit of depression or whatever it is he is wallowing in.

HE needs to pull himself together , and get himself help rather than you worry about helping him.
He needs to realize things for himself in order for anything to improve

I agree!

No easy answer. Keep your mental health in tack, maybe time to move on from this relationship if he doesnt seek help, will he realize that he may lose you if he doesnt get help? He maybe beyond wanting to stay in the relationship with you. You

can only do such much. Sad be true, nothing stays the same. I hope he gets help

and you need counseling to, this has effected you and whats left of the

relationship. Never let your spirit go in
the process of figuring out lifes many twists and turns.

Thank you for your comments. I am moving forward with my life and hope that he will be happy one day. I am receiving good counsel and have many supportive family members and friends.

This sounds like BS. Sounds to me like a well orchestrated plan to plant "evidence"on the Internet that this testofen supplement is the answer to men's ED problems. If it was so wonderful don't you think we'd be hearing about it from unbiased and verifiable sources? Yeah, your husband and you split because he couldn't get it up and if he'd just use this supplement all would be well in the marriage. Bullcrap.