Hi @shashana11 that must be so frustrating to lack the desire in order to have the active sex life you and your wife want. I'd like to share this article from Mayo Clinic that discusses some causes of low libido: https://mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/lets-talk-low-libido

I also would like to share this thread that discusses the difference between libido and erectile dysfunction as you may be able to find some helpful information: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/ed-versus-libido/