I am new to this group and am trying to figure out if I have MCI or not. A therapist said he thought I may have mild dementia, based on what I told him. My psychiatrist was upset that it had been suggested.
In the meantime I am having much trouble with my memory. In the past two weeks I have lost my pocketbook which has my debit card, and I don’t remember what else, probably some money, medication for one dose for when I forget to take it before I leave home and odds and ends. Since August I’ve lost all my health cards as well as my handicapped daughters cards, I kept them all together. I lost my drivers license, got a temporary one, received a new card and have lost that.
When driving home at night recently on a very familiar road which I travel twice a week, I got distracted and didn’t know where I was, so I just kept driving until I saw something familiar. I read an article and the next day can’t remember what I read. I have difficulty with people I know well, remembering names. Today I couldn’t remember if it was 2019 or 2020.
I get busy doing things in the house and forget to eat breakfast and lunch, then I get a low blood sugar, and have something to eat.
My husband is always saying “ don’t you remember this, “or that . And I say yes, even though I don’t, so I don’t have to listen to all the reminders and explanations. Sometimes I forget appointments, or to call someone who I said I would. I could go on for ever. Funny that I remember the things I forget, probably because they all have bad consequences, I don’t know.
Can anyone identify with this ?
Thanks, Skylark.
PS I have commented under a different email address in other groups, but had difficulty getting on this group with the same address.
I was diagnosed with MCI at age 62 due to many of the same circumstances happening to me. I am now 65. At age 50 I had 17 months of horrific chemo and was told before each treatment that my 'chemo cocktail' showed signs of causing memory loss in those receiving it. I thought, what choice do I have as without it I would not survive. Some days are very frustrating while others are just fine. I ask, or tell, my husband the same things through out the day and he says 'you already told me that' and it frustrates me and I get up and walk out of the room. I read books and cannot remember what I read. I walk into a room and can't remember why. I have become somewhat anti-social because I don't want friends to think 'what is wrong with her'. One thing that helps me is I am very active with Zumba, walks in the forest behind my house (I know the trails so well I don't get lost), weights, and calm myself with deep breathing exercises, etc. We have made plans to move closer to our son as this process continues. What frightens me the most was watching my very vibrant mother, who was a Judge, slowly sink into that ugly disease called Alzheimers and I wonder 'will that be me'. I find if I keep a smile on my face I don't experience the frustration as much. I really enjoy all the articles I read and don't feel so much alone. Linda