...just for a happy ending, well not quite, the dr who phoned and shouted at me... i did end up writing a very polite note about how he treated me and April 3 he phoned my spouse and I and apologized... still went in about his own issues not mine, but ... Then copy of report he sent to referring dr. which had quite a few errors in but over with now. I think possible he has burnout from covid or ? Waited a year for nothing but hard to go out of town for me, but mayhave to. He actually thanked me for writing to him, said his family has mentioned this (attitude?) to him..... so I feel I did the right thing. Too bad I went through it as found it upsetting from a professional,. No cure for tinnitus anyway, or apparently my ear pain. I know many hae it.... can we wish for a cure one day? J.