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"Quality of life"......a gift that just keeps on giving.

Aging Well | Last Active: Feb 26, 2021 | Replies (242)

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@1nan

You know Chris, so many of us are like you. We keep on keeping on. This post reminds me that I really do rely on my quality of life activities, but sometimes tolerate beyond what is smart. I have learned through error of judgment what many of us with certain issues believe. That continued or worsening discomfort is just an extension of what to expect. For example I missed a lot of severe neurological signals because I thought it was worsening neuropathy. I had to learn the hard way, but now try to look at changes differently and bring them up to my providers sooner rather than later, letting them be the decision makers. Meanwhile, those quality of life things are wonderful to help us get through those things that we cannot change. Identifying and appreciating them is enhanced when we share them with others.
Nancy

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@1nan. Your comment about not making assumptions new symptoms are due to old age or extensions of the same health problems we're dealing and bringing them to the attention of our health providers right away is one of the most important things I've learned the hard way recently. I assumed my shortness of breath after going up a flight of stairs and general fatigue were being caused by my being overweight, old, and out of shape. It took a trip to the emergency room when I thought I was having a heart attack and numerous tests to determine I had a paralyzed diaphragm that wasn't related to my age, weight, or being out of shape causing these symptoms, as well as periodic chest pain. I can be assertive and be my own advocate; but at the same time it's hard to change my perspective from not wanting to complain and bother people to making them aware what's going on and asking them to address the issue. A stereo type image I have in my mind that I hope is outdated and not correct is that many medical professionals don't take "complaints" from senior citizens seriously. What do other people think about this? Nancy PS I too love fabrics and had an amazing collection from the 55 countries around the world I visited. Sadly, I gave them away when I downsized; but I gave them to quilters who in turn made beautiful quilts which they then gave away. I know the recipients of all the beautiful items many on this thread have made and given away are really appreciate of your talent and generosity.