Hi @jk. Very touching. I never imagined I'd live this long. My uncle was a doctor but he smoked, had stress, and died youngish of a heart attack. My mother always served nutritious meals. I try to eat well but push the barrier sometimes. I am overweight, lost about 30 lbs and need to keep going but it's hard. Still I try and keep praying for help to control myself. Not easy. As far as the man who told you that you could smile, I'm thinking maybe he liked your looks. Or... maybe he was nuts.